COVERING AN OFFENSE

We, humans are flawed. At some time, in some way , each and every person we love and trust will fail us. That is why it is so important to decide in advance how you will respond when the sting of a wrong leaves its mark on your heart. 

Conventional wisdom says to get even, but Godly wisdom says that happiness , peace, reconciliation, and love will follow you when you do just the opposite, cover the offense with love and forgiveness. It does not mean it is always right to ignore such actions or the motives that drive them. But it does mean that it's right to refuse to broadcast it, nag about it, use it to gain power over the offender.

When we cover an offense, you acknowledge that you also are flawed and in need of forgiveness. You allow the law of love to rule over the law of retribution in your life. 

If you want people to like you, forgive them when the wrong you. - proverbs 17-9 Gnt.

(taken from proverbs for women.)

RECONCILED

I was talking about my relationship with my boss at work on my other blogs and I don't know If I have cursed her, hope I did not. I thought having an online journal that sums up your individuality is cool. I was blinded by my overwhelming feelings of being "offended and hurt" . So I keep blogging about her to release my anger and disappointment. The guts in me. Lately I realized I was wasting my energy and have allowed the enemy of this world to manipulate my feelings. Too late for me, I already disrespect her, I already make her suffer and taste those feelings that " I thought she deserved". But thank God, we were able to seat down and settle our issues. I personally ask forgiveness for all my lapses same thing,that  she ask forgiveness too  for those actions that have  pushed me to become rebellious with her. I am happy now that we reconciled. We talked and agreed  to work out our working relationship. And good thing, we are doing great now.Were not that close but at least we are trying and really doing well. Sometimes I still have this uncomfortable feeling, but  I am not entertaining it  because I want to make up with my boss. This is the best thing that I can do, so that when I leave her and find my future outside the company.  I would love to recall my memories with her  as the boss that understand, that supports and  that has a big heart to everyone.

VALENTINES DAY

The month of Love has come and today we are celebrating it  making our  world go round once again. Couples go in places were they could  best celebrate their love for each other. Flowers will surely be overflowing around the streets despite it's price increase as  the demands for  roses  goes up during valentines day. Because every women would love to have that bundle of red roses in their arms while walking hand in hand around the park with their partner. Chocolates will also be highlighted and sold out and though it's kind of cheesy and common, women still enjoys and appreciate such gesture from their man. Loving  couples, flowers and roses have been the secret formula of Valentines day. Agree?  Happy heart day everyone.May we filled Earth with love.

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IF YOUR NOT THE ONE

"If your not the one then why does this soul feels glad today, If your not the one then why does my hand fit yours this way? If you are not mine would I have the strength to stand at all, If you are not mine and would have the strength to stand at all. I never know what the future brings, but I know your here with me now. I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand. If I don't need you then why am I crying on my bed? If I don't need you then why does your name resound in my head? If your not for me then why does this distance maim my life?"

This song keeps on playing my head this afternoon, So I googled the exact lyrics to internalize every words written in that song. Sounds family to me and I am into mellow dramatic mode today so what I did was download the song from limewire and play it over and over again.

Cause I miss you, body and soul so strong that it takes my breath away And I breathe you into my heart and pray for the strength to stand today And I breathe you into my heart and pray for the strength to stand today Cause I love you, whether its wrong or right Cause I love you, whether its right or wrong And though I cant be with you tonight And though I cannot be with you tonight And know my heart is by your side.

WHAT'S THE POINT?

Now I am reaping what I have sown. After having attempts on talking to me the fast few days, I think my boyfriend gave up. I did not receive text messages and not even a call from him the whole day. Well I can't blame him (sigh!). Anyway if the fight will end and subside then let it be. No matter what may come along between us then at the end I believe fate will lead us back together if it's really meant to be that way (wishes) . I am talking as if this is the end of our 2 years relationship. My God, I will surely produce tears If we part ways . I am so stubborn but life must go on. Though it will surely be difficult for me , I know things will get better in time. I did not give him a call nor text message also today, because I' m afraid he might repeat those habits that I hate. But I am really missing him. What to do? I do not understand myself sometimes. I started this set up then all of a sudden I am not happy with the outcome. I kept quiet and avoided his explanation but now I am not okay. What a heck Yen. I am missing the point. I want him but sometimes I don't. Crazy girl.

Maintaining character

Being wealthy gives you the access to do what you desire, to have what you wish for. One best example I knew is the family I have known for how many years. This family used to live a very simple life. They can't even send all of their children in school, but one day the very simple life become extravagant in living; their father won millions in lottery. So their family lifestyle change, they send their children to school and purchase a new house and lot. Things have change for good that was I knew, but after months of being an instant millionaire I noticed that the relationship in that family had also change. The character of each family member becomes extreme in attitude. Pride was developed; my friend in that family became arrogant and rude. Money had changed him.  


Some people become slaves in money. They think they are superior to others because they have plenty. They failed to see that money isn't everything. God said “do not be conformed in the things of the world".  

What is your Heart Condition?

What is your heart condition right now? Are you inlove? Broken hearted? Lonely ? well here are some facts of interpretation  about our  heart conditions

• Inlove ,  Life is so good, so fabolous and exciting , life is inspiring. 
• Broken Hearted , Life is dim and lonely, life is not interesting , life is empty.
•  Bitter Heart, Life sucks! 
• Greedy Heart , Life is without contentment.
• Happy Heart, Life is light and always smiling.
• Jealous Heart , Life is insecure
• Envious Heart ,  Makes you ambitious.
• Angry Heart , Hates the world.

Heart gives us different kinds of emotions that we could act according to the conditions of the heart. But no matter how bad is the condition of our hearts, we must not be downcast and lifeless. We must fight the negative feelings it caused. We can always command ourselves to get moving and find a life and be positive!

Images of devotions

 When somebody gives you three red roses, it means : I LOVE YOU , Two red roses : I CARE , One red rose - Well , roses are expensive , your boyfriend could only afford one.

Language is essential for expression. Symbols, composed of sounds , words and meanings all  for effective and affective communication. Symbolism is therefore the essence of language. Images are faith expressions.  A part of humanities interactive perception in an attempt to reach out to God. The whole bible itself is a coterie of language, symbols, images and pictures because it is a faith expression of choosen peoples experience of God through the history of salvation.  If three red roses is for I love you we must be a result of a deep expression of a deep experience of love and of course human nature.You may  refer to revelation 4:6-8.

I CAN'T FIGHT THIS FEELING

My heart is in low spirit today, and I am having a hard time lifting up other spirit in my group. I can’t control my tears from flowing down my face, I wish I have been little cautious and not to trusting from letting him own the very sensitive part of my heart. Now I can no longer help myself, too late for me to realize that I am already into it. Is love really blind? I don't think so. In my case I know I am leading to nowhere and knows what may be the consequences if this feeling of mine continues, the problem is that I cannot find ways to cut it.