Browsed this Ten Cannots' fact of life that we can used as a guide in reflecting what we really can do and cannot give to our neighbor.
1. You cannot bring about prosperity by discouraging thrift.
2. You cannot help small men by tearing down big men.
3. You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
4. You cannot lift the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer.
5. You cannot help the poor man by destroying the rich.
6. You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than you earn.
7. You cannot further the brotherhood of man by inciting class hatred.
8. You cannot establish security on borrowed money.
9. You cannot build character and courage by taking away man's initiative and independence.
10. You cannot help men, permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.

Same thing as the saying says : You cannot give what you don't have. It is foolishness to guide the blind by another blind according to what I have read in the scripture if that happens they will both fall into the pit. 

1 comment:

lina@women's perspectives said...

I agree with this, Yen.

About soul mate...if you think soul mate is a perfect one, well, it's just a fantasy...
but if you see soul mate is someone who loves and accepts you completely...you will find one :)