I had a friend since college that seldom gives me a ring , but if he does Its pretty sure because his in trouble. I woke up this afternoon with the telephone ringing so get up and pick up the phone. The friend that I was talking call this afternoon. He was so worried and desperate, if that's the term. He was asking for help but unfortunately I was not the right person he can rely at this time, he was in urgent mode and I can't respond immediately on his need. I know it sounds absurd and unnecessary for him, but I told him he should pray instead of mending too much pressure and demands from the person who he is in compromised. I can help him if only he gives me more time or he was able to share the the burden long before the fire flare up , But it was not the case, he was like passing the pressure on me which is not fair. We ended the conversation with the hope that he will still count me his friend even if he was disappointed because I was not not able to help him resolve his problem the way he expect me to do it for him, I hope he has no grudges over me. Friend, I am not a superwoman, I just look like one. Instead of looking for a super woman , look for the maker of all creature here on Earth, God . His, the right person to call right away, as He is able to fix all problem.It may sound cheesy for you Friend, but this thing I know is the most effective and tested solution I have known so far.