UNDECIDED TO WHAT IT MEANS

If it's not meant to be, then let go and live a life. To some this is so easy to say specially for those who have not experience such scenario in life. To some who are aware of the fact but are not yet ready to accept the process, they tend to pretend and just live under their own world of compromise. While to some realistic people who are desperate to live a life without any pretension, absorbing the fact ,after  weighing the gravity of happiness , lies, satisfaction , hurts, brokenness and losses. They manage to break free and be smart enough to start a peaceful life.  Why was I talking about these? my answer is that, I wanted to describe the different people of different personality that I am privilege to meet.I will try.

The other one, that I used to know along time ago has his own story to tell. A complicated one. The other one has also her own piece to share, same as the third one. What they have in common is that, they all both have a complicated stories which makes their feelings to be trap. These people are smart and successful in their careers but somehow the two of them cannot get out of their self made trap and are even willing to live under compromise.But what's puzzling me is that behind those compromise  I could see these three people seems to live a happy life, but though they seemed to be happy. I do not know now how deep is that and how long it will last. Now I am pondering what is really meant to live a happy life, Is it about satisfying your self , choosing to be happy amidst complicated status, or is it about acceptance.. acceptance that life is not fair to all ,or is it one of the  mysteries of  life.hmmm..

3 comments:

Soulful said...

luckily, i realized early that we could only happy if we are doing what we want to do.. i guess i'm on the right track..

Arvin U. de la Peña said...

basta be happy lang what life you have....

The Lioness said...

You know you always have a choice. Its between your choice for self-indulgence or choose what is should be done and go on with a clean living. Overwhelming situations come and go in our lives, its up to us how we deal it or how we let it manipulate us. Happiness is always a choice but, whatever your choice is, it must be dealt responsibly.