KEEPING THE LOVE ALIVE

 Can you keep the Love alive when you are living with your partner you no longer love? But you have children with him. I have asked this question because one of my dear friends is having a problem with her marriage. I am so concern with her that I didn't realize that I am giving her the worst advice, I have judge her marriage according to what I saw and what I believe that is best for both of them.


I believe that every marriage is unique and has God's blessing. And I also believe that there is no such thing called “Accident in life” all things happened to serve its purpose. I am not against divorce but I am not favor with that kind of solution. I regret giving my friend an immature advice; I told her to annul her marriage with her irresponsible husband, without thinking that they have a child. Instead of convincing her that it is still best for both of them to sit down and humble themselves to discuss their issues and find solutions that will make them strong together.


“Marriage is not a bed of roses" as I usually heard among the couples who are striving to save their marriage. What good it can give when they both decides to end up their marriage. I know a couple who does not love each other anymore but keeps intact for the sake of their children. The mother sacrifices her own happiness to protect her marriage with her irresponsible husband. Today, their 4 children had grown up and has a good careers in their fields of expertise, but as to her marriage the issue has not yet settled between them but the point is , they are still making their way to keep the family whole and solid for the welfare of their children.

HAPPY FATHERS DAY

I want to dedicate this space to my Father , Brothers and Unclesok and my friends out there who are celebrating the fathers day with their own family at home. I just made a phone call to  my father today to greet him a happy fathers day, because i was not able to visit  them today at home. I needed to stay here in the apartment to do some stuffs. Washed my uniforms for the week and do some cleaning here. I also  cannot leave the house since my sister is out in manila, I have to take care her dog while she is  still recovering from giving  birth last June 18, 2009 to a  healthy baby boy, She has to rest first to gain back her energy before coming home.
Happy Fathers Day to all the  daddy  blogger out there. May life comes to you as blessed as God's wants you to experience.

DAYS COUNTING

My sister is expecting her baby this month.  Her tummy is like a huge watermelon under her maternity dress that any moment would dropped in the floor if she will not hold it all the time.  Everytime I saw here with that huge tummy I fell like I am also pregnant because I could not help myself from thinking how heavy it is to carry a huge and sensitive life under her tummy. Thanks God, her month has came after eight months of sacrifices , the days for her delivery is coming soon.